Part Two. The Denial: Downplaying the Consequences of Family Structure for Children

Introduction

In an earlier paper (Glenn & Sylvester, 2006), we reported a study of the articles (266 in all) published in the Journal of Marriage and Family (JMF)* from 1977-2002 that dealt with the relationship between family structure and child well-being. We found that, over that period, family scholars became more concerned about the impact of divorce and out-of-wedlock childbearing on children. Despite the overall shift in scholarly views, a number of family scholars still maintain relatively sanguine views about the increase in single-parent families and its implications for child well-being. In the course of our research, we found a number of recurring arguments from this perspective.

In this paper, we discuss common arguments employed by authors of articles in the JMF who took relatively sanguine views toward unwed childbearing and divorce. We find that, in many cases, the apparent scholarly disputes about family structure are merely matters of rhetorical emphasis. Some arguments from scholars who take a sanguine view provide useful antidotes to overly gloomy views of divorce and father absence, but others appear to be ideologically driven efforts to discount and minimize strong evidence for consequences of family structure for children. A few of the arguments suffer from fundamental analytical errors, and even more serious, a few scholars seem to want family researchers to stop asking questions about the impact of family structure—an apparent example of the anti-scientific view that a lack of knowledge is better than knowledge.

 

The Shift in Scholarly Attitudes toward Family Structure

In the late 1970s and early 1980s, many scholars believed that the rise in divorce was not particularly problematic for children, a conclusion not based solidly in empirical research because research on the subject had been sparse. In 1979, two authors of an article in the JMF concluded that there were “no consistent findings” on the effects of divorce on children (Raschke & Raschke, 1979, p. 369). While divorce rates were up, some scholars pointed to a corresponding rise in remarriage as evidence that families were not weakening (Moroney, 1979, p. 462). “Although family structure has changed considerably over time,” explained one scholar, “the socialization and supportive functions appear to have survived and, in the opinion of some social scientists, to have been strengthened in the twentieth century” (Moroney, 1979, p. 462).

Over the years, though, additional research made such rosy statements increasingly untenable. Studies using nationally representative data sets consistently indicated that children in single-parent and stepparent families suffered from higher rates of emotional problems, behavioral problems, and academic failure (e.g., Dawson, 1991; McLanahan & Booth, 1989; Peterson & Zill, 1986)—differences not largely removed by statistically controlling variables likely to commonly affect both family structure and child outcomes and thus produce a spurious (non-causal) relationship between the two. Most children in all kinds of family structures did not display the problems studied, but differences in the risk of problems among different kinds of families were often found to be statistically significant and large enough to be important. It was found that remarriage did not remedy the apparent negative effects of divorce, as children in stepfamilies did only about as well as children living with single parents (McLanahan & Booth, 1989). More researchers began to believe that family composition did have important effects on child well-being, and even those scholars who remained sanguine about single parenting and divorce had to acknowledge the new data.

 

Retired Arguments

As the empirical evidence grew, some arguments for optimistic assessments of family structure trends were essentially retired. At one time, a few scholars suggested that the increase in father absence was in fact nothing new and alarming, as parental death used to be quite frequent (Sweetser, 1985). Subsequent research indicated, however, that parental death and divorce have different consequences for children. Outcomes for children who lose a parent to death are substantially better than for children whose parents divorce (Glenn & Kramer, 1985; 1987; Aquilino, 1994; Biblarz & Gottainer, 2000). Thus, the argument equating parental death with parental divorce has largely disappeared.

Early assessments of single-mother families also tended to be optimistic about the role of “social fathers” or “father figures” for children. For instance, a 1983 article reporting a qualitative study of young unwed mothers argues that “neither kinship nor household membership is necessary for a male to perform those psychological and instrumental functions commonly associated with fatherhood in our society” (Gershenson, 1983, p. 597). According to the study’s author, grandfathers, stepfathers, boyfriends, and other male relatives and neighbors “provide a wide variety of possible males who could serve as fathers to the child” (p. 592). In fact, given that array of men, children in so-called father-absent homes may even benefit from “[m]ultiple fatherhood” (p. 592). The author instructs other researchers that they “must recognize increases in support which occur as a new father enters the family’s life” (p. 598). Almost anyone would agree that such men can play positive, influential roles in children’s lives, but the implicit and dubious conclusion of the Gershenson article is that they frequently do so to an extent that largely offsets the effects of the absence of a biological father.

Research on “social fathering” continues (Jayakody & Kalil, 2002), but there is no compelling evidence that a substantial percentage of children in single-mother families enjoy close, involved relationships with “social fathers.” Evidence is even scarcer that stepfathers or cohabiting boyfriends consistently improve child well-being. Stepfather-stepchild relationships are, on average, less close than biological father-child relationships (White, 1999; Fine et al., 1992; Thomson, McLanahan, & Curtin, 1992), and living with a stepparent or a cohabiting boyfriend is associated with higher risks of behavioral problems as well as physical or sexual abuse (Coleman, Ganong, & Fine, 2000; Martin & Walters, 1982). Despite the hopes of their mothers (and possibly researchers), children themselves may not view these men as “fathers.” The hope that other men can easily substitute for absent biological fathers has received little or no empirical support. Accordingly, the argument that they can, and often do, has apparently become rare.

 

Does Family Structure Matter? Not “Necessarily”

As the empirical literature on family structure has expanded, arguments in defense of divorce and single parenting have generally moved beyond the early Pollyannaish assessments. A more common approach now is to argue against a purportedly unjustified alarmism about the negative effects of divorce and unwed childbearing. “Certainly the consequences of divorce are not trivial,” writes Judith Stacey (1993), a vocal proponent of family diversity, “but divorce, in and of itself, does not harm the young nearly so much as [certain scholars] have claimed” (p. 547). (We will return to use of the phrase “in and of itself.”) David Demo (1992) agrees that the negative consequences of divorce and single parenting “have been greatly exaggerated” (p. 105).

Of course, there are reasonable and legitimate arguments that can be made about the magnitude of family structure effects, and no doubt some commentators have exaggerated that magnitude. However, virtually no one has argued that differences between children who grow up in different family structures are absolute and categorical—and no author of an article in the JMF during 1977-2002 came even close to doing that. For instance, to our knowledge no one has ever claimed that all “children of divorce” become delinquent while no persons whose parents had intact marriages ever do. There would seem to be little need, therefore, to rebut such extremist beliefs about family structure effects. Yet, consider the following statements from JMF authors who took a relatively optimistic view of divorce and single parenting (all with emphasis added):

“In conclusion, the results of the current investigation support the belief that parental marital disruption does not necessarily culminate in adjustment problems in a college-student population” (Greenberg & Nay, 1982, p. 346).

“Marriage does not always enhance one’s well-being…” (Walker, 2000, p. 598).

“These findings support the contention that family structure does not automatically adversely affect family members’ well-being. . . . Our findings suggest that . . . divorce and remarriage are not necessarily associated with the host of adjustment problems that have at times been reported in the clinical literature” (Lansford et al., 2001, p. 842, 850).

“Data on fathering demonstrate that marriage is neither a sufficient nor a necessary context for responsible fathering” (Walker & McGraw, 2000, p. 566).

“[S]ingle-parent and stepparent families . . . do not necessarily imply a pathological social unit that cannot function or provide an appropriate environment for raising children” (Baydar, 1988, p. 968).

“Residing with two parents offers no guarantee of positive parental involvement for children” (Videon, 2002, p. 499).

All these statements are accurate and would serve to puncture extreme fatalism about the effects of family structure—if any serious family scholars held such extreme views. No scholar or reasonably sophisticated policy maker, even a staunch believer in family structure effects, could conceivably disagree with such conclusions, which are essentially attacks on straw men. As such, these and similar statements do nothing to rebut the argument that an intact family tends to be the most supportive family structure for children. Rather, the argument that divorce is largely benign has been replaced with the unremarkable and almost obviously correct statement that growing up outside of an intact two-parent family does not doom children to poor outcomes.

It is notable that scholars rarely make such statements about other factors that influence child well-being. In our examination of the JMF articles, we found no examples of authors pointing out, for instance, that growing up in poverty does not inevitably result in poor child outcomes. Nor do scholars apparently feel obliged to emphasize that low levels of maternal education do not necessarily lead to educational difficulties for children. The restriction of the “not necessarily” statements to conclusions about negative family structure effects suggests that some scholars feel a particular discomfort about reporting or accepting evidence for such effects.

If only to reassure parents and children in non-intact families, it is important to point out that most children, regardless of their living arrangements, do not exhibit serious emotional, behavioral, or academic problems. In fact, many authors whose articles indicate negative effects of divorce stress that such effects are not automatic, inevitable, or even likely. There is a problem only when authors use the “not necessarily” statements to try to avoid the issue of whether there is strong evidence that family structure substantially affects the probability of undesirable outcomes. Insofar as this rhetorical approach is meant to be an argument against concern about divorce and out-of-wedlock childbearing, it lacks meaningful heft.


The Problem of Parental Conflict

A valid argument made by some scholars who take relatively sanguine views toward divorce is that many problems assumed to be the result of the divorce actually stem from pre-divorce parental conflict. The typical cross-sectional study on divorce compares children in intact homes with those from divorced homes at one point in time. Most of those studies indicate that children of divorce suffer from significantly higher rates of emotional and behavioral problems, even when a number of variables that could affect both parental divorce and child outcomes are statistically held constant. However, pre-divorce characteristics of the parental marriage were not until recently usually included as control variables in these studies, and some of these variables may have negatively affected the children even if the parents had not divorced. For example, children whose parents divorce are more likely to have lived in homes marked by parental conflict, and there is strong evidence that parental conflict is harmful to children, regardless of their parents’ marital status (Kelly, 2000, p. 963; Emery, 1999). Thus, perhaps exposure to such conflict, not divorce, is responsible for much of the observed difference in child outcomes between the children of divorce and persons whose parents did not divorce.

Longitudinal or retrospective studies that include measures of pre-divorce parental conflict allow estimates of the effects of the divorce net of the lingering effects of the conflict. Such studies do indicate that some of the alleged effects of divorce were present before the divorce occurred (Amato & Booth, 1996), but there is not agreement about the size of those effects. Some authors contend that preexisting factors account for “most of the negative effects” (Sun, 2001, p. 712) or “many of the problems” (Videon, 2002, p. 490) divorce presents to children. Other authors argue that divorce itself brings substantial additional negative consequences. One study that indicates significant negative effects of pre-divorce conflict also indicates that “factors associated with divorce, itself, such as parental absence, changes in custody and relationships, and declines in parents’ psychological well-being, explain increases in children’s behavior problems over and above the effect of pre-disruption parental quarrels” (Morrison & Coiro, 1999, p. 635). Amato (2000) writes, “Even if pre-divorce family factors (including genetic factors) predispose children to certain emotional and behavioral problems, divorce itself brings about new conditions that exacerbate these differences. . . . [T]he evidence is strong that divorce has an impact on well-being net of selection” (p. 1279, 1282).

Research also indicates that the effects of divorce vary depending on the quality of the marriage. The end of a highly conflicted marriage seems typically to improve outcomes for children, as it frees them from an angry and unstable home life (Amato, 2000). On the other hand, divorces that dissolve low-conflict marriages appear “to have a strong negative influence” for children (Booth & Amato, 2001, p. 210). Moreover, a nationally representative study estimates that around two-thirds of divorces end low-conflict marriages (Amato & Booth, 1997).

Therefore, while it is true that the simple correlation of family structure with child outcomes tends to overestimate negative family structure effects, the most sophisticated research on the topic estimates that there are important family structure effects.


Explaining Family Structure Effects

As evidence grew that children with married parents displayed higher levels of well-being, at least in part because of their living with married parents, researchers began investigating in more detail the reasons why marriage was associated with better outcomes for children. If family structure affects child well-being and development, through what mechanisms do the effects occur?

To answer this question, researchers use some measure of family structure as the “predictor” or “independent” variable, i.e., the variable the effect of which is to be estimated. Then they use some outcome, such as academic achievement or mental health, as the “dependent” variable, i.e., the variable that is likely to be affected by the independent variable. Variables that might commonly affect both the independent and dependent variables and thus create a “spurious” (or “non-causal”) relationship (correlation) between them are then measured and statistically held constant in the research. Variables that may create spurious relationships between family structure and child outcomes include race, mother’s level of education, and, as previously mentioned, pre-divorce characteristics of marriages. Finally, variables that are likely to be “intervening” or “mediating” variables are then identified, i.e., variables likely to be affected by the independent variable and in turn to affect the dependent variable. These variables are also entered into the analysis to estimate their effects on the dependent variable and to see what the remaining relationship of the independent variable to the dependent variable is once these variables are statistically held constant. If holding constant a mediating variable substantially changes the relationship between the independent variable and the dependent variable, it is identified as an apparent important mechanism through which the independent variable affects the dependent variable. Mediating variables used in family structure research include the extent of parental supervision, the closeness of parent-child relationships, family income, and so on.

Two variables emerge as the apparent primary mechanisms through which family structure affects child outcomes, namely, family income and the nature of parent-child relationships. It appears that divorce and out-of-wedlock childbearing typically result in family structures less able to provide the economic and parental resources that help children thrive.

Family Structure and Income

Income consistently emerges as one of the most important mediating variables between family structure and child well-being (e.g., see Carlson & Corcoran, 2001; Lerman, 2000a; 2000b; Morrison & Cherlin, 1995; Smock et al., 1999). Single parents must usually make do largely on only one income, and according to one estimate, a parental divorce typically leads to a decline in a child’s standard of living of about one-third (Waite & Gallagher, 2000, p. 126). This income drop may create more stress at home, lead the family to move to a poorer neighborhood, and, among other things, make it more difficult to afford college tuition. According to Morrison and Cherlin (1995), “declines in economic circumstances appear to be linked to the experience of behavior problems among children of divorce” (p. 811).

That out-of-wedlock childbearing and divorce contribute to child poverty is not in doubt; in the case of divorce, the effect is often direct, immediate, and readily observable. However, because poverty can also contribute to divorce and unwed childbearing, determining precisely how family structure and family economic status are causally related is difficult, as is always the case when the causal arrows between two variables run both ways. Furthermore, some of the correlation between family economic status and child outcomes is almost certainly spurious (non-causal) due to the influence of other variables that likely affect both of them, such as the degree of parental competence. Nevertheless, the evidence that family income is an important mediating variable between family structure and child outcomes is strong and very convincing, both to us and to the JMF authors who reported research on the topic.

Family Structure and Family Process

Research also indicates that family structure influences parenting behavior and parent-child relationships. Parenting behaviors, in turn, are thought to have important effects on child outcomes. A basic premise is that two parents can do more than one. Research indicates that children in single-parent families receive less attention and supervision than children in intact homes; single parents who are tired, stressed out, and/or preoccupied with establishing new romantic relationships are not likely to be very effective parents. In these and perhaps other ways as well, family structure influences what happens inside a family—what scholars call “family process.” Three authors summarize much of the evidence:

Studies have found that marital dissolution, as well as remarriage, disrupts primary bonds between parents and children. Numerous reviews show that single parents (custodial and noncustodial) are involved less in their children’s school work, exert less parental influence, and find it more difficult to supervise and discipline their children-parenting strategies that lead to single-parent families’ exhibiting significantly higher rates of adolescent deviant behavior in general. [Researchers] report that single parents have less restrictive rules than do married parents and that stepparents and cohabiting male partners have less frequent involvement and fewer positive responses to children compared with biological parents (Longmore, Manning, & Geiordano, 2001, p. 324).

Divorce and out-of-wedlock childbearing also make it very difficult for fathers to maintain positive, involved relationships with their children over the years. “[R]educed paternal contact,” one scholar notes, “is one of the most consistent and pronounced effects of divorce on children” (Cooney, 1994, p. 46).

As the authors of another study explain:

[O]ur findings largely support the contention that family structure influences child development through its impact on family processes. Our results suggest that children of divorce are at risk for adjustment problems because their parents are less likely to engage in competent parenting and are more likely to engage in parental conflict than parents who are married to each other (Simons et al., 1999, p. 1031).

As with income, the issue is complex, because parents with conflictual relationships tend to be selected into divorce. And although parental conflict sometimes increases after divorce, the research reported in the JMF in 1977-2002 does not provide good estimates of the separate effects of pre-divorce parental characteristics and of influences that arose only after the divorce. For instance, while “single parents tend to make fewer demands on children and utilize less effective disciplinary strategies than married parents,” perhaps those same parents tend to have traits that would predispose them to divorce or to have a child out of wedlock as well (Simons, Johnson, & Conger, 1994, p. 357). White (1994) makes a similar point when she writes, “We cannot know the extent to which the weaker parent-child solidarity of those raised in single-parent families is an outcome of divorce itself, of the poverty and family stress that follow divorce, or of family conflict and problems that arose before the divorce” (p. 946).

Nevertheless, most 1977-2002 JMF authors who address the topic believe that there are important family structure effects on family process or that the two are so intertwined as to be inseparable. Amato (1993) states that family structure influences family process because “it creates opportunities for certain types of interaction and places constraints on others” (p. 52). “In effect,” explain Lorenz et al. (1997), “the major event of divorce becomes the cause of other events,” which affect child outcomes more directly (p. 229). A somewhat different stance is taken by Dawson (1991), who writes:

Most researchers agree that family structure per se is essentially a proxy for related processes that affect children’s health and well-being. These include changes in family relationships that accompany marital conflict and disruption—decreased communication between the custodial parent and child, diminished affection and interest, increased restrictiveness—and factors related to the task overload faced by all single parents, including never-married women (p. 574).

The “Per Se” Problem

Scholars who doubt the existence of important family structure effects readily acknowledge the importance of income and family process. In fact, many of these authors emphasize the relevance of income and family process in an attempt to downplay the importance of family structure. They commonly employ two rhetorical approaches. One tactic is to claim that family structure “per se” or “in and of itself” has little impact. Another is to argue that income, family process, or some other variable is a “better predictor” of a specified outcome than family structure. Often these two approaches are paired together. Even though these arguments appear regularly in the Journal of Marriage and Family, they represent a departure from the usual way in which social science evidence is interpreted. The “per se” arguments are often misleading. Occasionally, they are even illogical and lead to patently incorrect conclusions.

Before we discuss specific examples, it is important to stress something we alluded to earlier, namely, that family structure—in common with similar variables such as social class, race, gender, age, and birth cohort—has its effects through specific mechanisms. If all of these mechanisms could be identified, measured, and incorporated into research designs, family structure would have no “direct” effects. Family structure comes earlier in the causal chain than the specific mechanisms through which it influences child outcomes. In other words, family structure is a distal cause and the specific mechanisms are the more proximate causes of child outcomes. If all of the specific mechanisms were controlled in a study, would it therefore be the case that family structure is of no importance whatsoever?

Of course not. The total effects of family structure would be the total of all of its indirect effects through the specific mechanisms. If all mediating variables are not controlled, then the estimated total effects of family structure is the sum of its estimated direct effects and of all of its indirect effects. Yet several JMF authors essentially say that indirect effects of family structure do not count.

For example, in an article titled “Does Family Structure Matter?” the authors champion the “perspective [that] stresses the importance of family processes in all family structures and posits that family structure per se is comparatively unimportant in predicting well-being and relationship quality” (Lansford et al., 2001, p. 849). To support this view, they point to their finding that family structure differences in child well-being “were no longer significant after controlling for family process variables” (p. 850). Given that almost all scholars who have addressed the issue have concluded that family structure affects family process, it makes no sense to conclude that family structure is irrelevant because controlling family process variables reduces its estimated direct effects.

In a similar vein, Demo and Adcock (1988) write, “Children’s behavioral problems associated with [the inadequate supervision by single mothers] may . . . be attributable to low income and the need for maternal employment rather than being the result of single-parent family structure per se” (p. 640). Yet, insofar as single-mother families are likely to have low incomes in large measure because they are single, it makes no sense to dismiss the impact of family structure as these authors do. The fact that a single mother does not have access to a husband’s financial contributions creates a greater need for maternal employment, which Demo and Adcock hypothesize contributes to the lower rates of parental supervision displayed by single mothers. Demo and Adcock continue, “[T]he effects of marital disruption on children may be indirect, operating through the economic and emotional impact of divorce on custodial mothers” (p. 640). Here, the authors concede possible indirect effects of family structure, but the overall thrust of their treatment of the topic is to imply, incorrectly, that because the effects are indirect, they are not reason for concern.

One of the most predictable effects of divorce is reduced contact between fathers and children. One longitudinal study by Shapiro and Lambert (1999) indicates that children of divorce on average have worse relationships with their fathers than children in intact families. But the authors write:

We do not suggest, however, that divorce, itself, is wholly responsible for negative changes in the quality of the father-child relationship. We find that the connection between divorce and relationship quality is moderated by the residential status of the focal child. . . . [I]t is divorced fathers who discontinue residence with their focal child who perceive the largest decrease in relationship quality over time. (p. 405-406)

The authors’ logic here is simply wrong. If divorce is the reason why these children don’t live with their fathers (and the authors present no evidence to the contrary), no evidence the authors report is inconsistent with the conclusion that divorce is wholly responsible for the estimated negative changes in the father-child relationship. Again, the point needs to be stressed that indirect effects are just as important as so-called “direct” ones, which are usually labeled as “direct” only because the mechanisms through which the effects occur have not been identified. In the technical language of causal modeling, family structure is an “exogenous” variable and family process and family economic status are “endogenous” variables, i.e, among the variables believed to be affected by the exogenous variables. We refrain from saying that it is never useful to compare the estimated total or direct effects of an exogenous variable with those of an endogenous variable, but such comparisons are rarely done and need to be justified. In the case of family structure comparisons with family process or family economic status, the most likely purpose is the ideological one of trying to downplay and divert attention away from the evidence for the effects of family structure. Further evidence for an ideological basis for the “per se” statements about family structure is that they are almost never made in regard to other broad variables that have their effects through specific mechanisms. For instance, we found no instances in our examination of JMF articles of authors saying “it is not poverty per se” that has negative effects on children, although such specific mechanisms as attendance at poor schools, bad neighborhood influences, and so forth were often incorporated into the research.

 

The “Better Predictor” Problem

Very similar to the “per se” problem is another interpretive strategy that involves comparing the estimated effects of predictor and mediating variables. We call this the “better predictor” problem, and it consists of researchers asking whether some mediating variable (typically family process or income) is a “better” or “more important” predictor of child outcomes than family structure. Here are some examples:

“[R]ecent research indicates that family processes better explain adolescent well-being than family composition. . . .” (Rodgers & Rose, 2002, p. 1024).

“As other investigators have pointed out, the tone and quality of the relationships within the family may be more important than the family type in affecting the individual” (Hannum & Mayer, 1984, p. 747).

“More consequential than family type for children’s well-being is the quality of parent-child and other family relationships” (Demo, 1992, p. 115).

“Our analyses show that behavioral and emotional involvement with both mother and father are important for the well-being of boys. For boys, both childhood and ongoing relationships with mothers and fathers are more important for well-being than paternal presence” (Wenk et al., 1994, p. 234).

“[B]eing in a single-parent versus a traditional two-parent family may not be as critical a factor for adolescent outcomes as are parenting practices per se, particularly support and monitoring” (Barnes & Farrell, 1992, p. 773).

In all of these cited articles, the “better predictor” statements are based on comparisons of estimated direct effects only and fail to take into account indirect effects. As we point out above, as mechanisms through which family structure has its effects are identified and incorporated into the research, the estimated direct effects dwindle, eventually becoming weaker than the estimated direct effects of almost any of the mediating variables. And if all of the mechanisms could be identified, the estimated direct effects of family structure would be zero. Thus the better the causal model, the greater the advantage that mediating variables have over exogenous ones when the estimated direct effects of the two are pitted against one another.

To be more concrete, such variables referred to in the quotations above as “tone and quality of the relationships within the family,” “the quality of parent-child and other family relationships,” “ongoing relationships with mothers and fathers,” and “parenting practices” are all variables likely to be affected by family structure. Indeed, it is through family structure’s influence on those parenting variables that family structure effects are likely to occur. Thus, comparing the estimated direct effects of those parenting variables with the estimated direct effects of family structure after the parenting variables are statistically “held constant” (controlled) is not meaningful.

Comparing the estimated direct effects of family income with the estimated direct effects of family structure also has been common in JMF articles. In a 1982 article, Elaine Blechman writes that research findings that control for “extraneous socioeconomic variables . . . consistently point to the major impact of parent income . . . and the minor or nonexistent impact of family type” (p. 187). In a study of early school achievement, two authors write, “The socioeconomic status of single mothers, not family configuration, . . . seems to be the key [variable]” (Entwisle & Alexander, 1995, p. 407-408). Another article argues, “[E]ffects that appear to be caused by divorce may actually be the result of inadequate income—the loss of the father being relatively less critical than the loss of his financial contribution” (Demo & Acock, 1988, p. 640). Contrary to Blechman’s assertion, however, income is not an “extraneous” variable when investigating the effects of family structure. In the real world, the absence of a father and the absence of a father’s income often go hand-in-hand.

Still other conspicuous examples of the “better predictor” problem are in JMF articles dealing with teen sexual activity and pregnancy. Research has consistently indicated that girls who grow up outside of intact, married homes are more likely to have sex at an early age and to become pregnant as teenagers (e.g., Longmore, Manning, & Geiordano, 2001; Moore & Chase-Lansdale, 2001). Yet some authors de-emphasize this linkage, as in the following two quotations:



Our analyses suggest that process, rather than structural, variables are of primary importance when the role of the family in predicting adolescent sexual behavior and risk due to sexual behavior is considered (Miller, Forehand, & Kotchick, 1999, p. 93-94).

Our analysis suggests that family context rather than structural factors are of primary importance when considering the role of the family environment with respect to teenage sexual initiation. As we hypothesized, the family context—more specifically the mother-child relationship, the level of interaction, and the mother’s attitudes toward and discussion of sex—does influence adolescents’ sexual debut[s] (Davis & Friel, 2001, p. 679-680).

Parental monitoring and susceptibility to negative peer pressure are likely mediating variables between family structure and teenage girls’ sexual behavior, and there is also an explanation that directly connects structure and process: Girls in single-mother homes are on the average more aware of their mothers’ sexuality because single mothers, unlike married ones, are likely to date. Whitbeck, Simons, and Kao (1994) explain:

As single mothers reestablish their social lives after divorce, begin dating, and initiate new intimate relationships, their sexual attitudes and behaviors may become more apparent to their teenage children. Such adult behaviors may be particularly salient at this developmental stage because adolescents are contending with many of the same issues in their own lives . . . . [One study] found that . . . divorced mothers develop less restrictive attitudes toward sexual behavior than women who remain in intact marriages (pp. 615-616).

Sometimes authors combine several mediating variables in their comparisons with family structure. For instance:

Divorce and single-parent families have been dramatic developments over the past three decades, but the evidence . . . suggests that they may not be as important for children’s well-being as paternal abandonment, neglect, and failure to pay child support (Demo, 1992, p 111).

We must stress that the frequent occurrence of the inappropriate comparisons in the academic family literature that we call the “per se” and “better predictor” problems does not mean that most family structure researchers have made them or that we are the first to point out their inappropriateness. Several JMF authors are explicit about avoiding the problems:

One of the effects of divorce is a loss of income, so one cannot use income after divorce as a control that implies ‘equalization’ before the impact of divorce” (Keith & Finley, 1988, p. 800).

And, in a report of a study of family structure and adolescent drug use:

[A]lthough peer influence is predictive of substance use in adolescence, it is likely that susceptibility to peer influence is, in turn, partially determined by marital disruption. Thus, control for peer influences is not appropriate, given the purposes of this study (Flewelling & Bauman, 1999, p. 179).

Apparently almost all family scholars and researchers agree on the mechanisms—such as family process and income—that crucially affect child well-being and agree that gaining a better understanding of those mechanisms is worthwhile. However, some scholars look beyond those proximate causes and trace a family’s social and economic resources back to more distal influences, such as family structure. Others, in contrast, are reluctant to look back at the distal causes, or at least at family structure, thus departing from the longstanding social science tradition of linking proximate causes to distal ones such as class, race, gender, age, birth cohort, and amount of education—all of which are similar to family structure in that they have their effects through a number of specific mechanisms.

 

Changing the Subject, Embracing Family Structure Diversity

Some scholars make explicit their attempt to draw attention away from family structure. Katherine Allen (1993) writes, “The real culprits in children’s lives are persistent poverty, conflict, neglect, abuse, and abandonment, not parental divorce” (p. 48). Raschke and Raschke (1979) argue that scholars should pay “less attention to ferreting out the ‘ills’ of the single-parent family” (p. 373).

A handful of scholars argue (if they mean what they say) that researchers should altogether avoid asking questions about the impact of family structure. Thompson and Walker (1995) proclaim, “Scholars must stop asking about the price of deviance that faces individuals, families, and society when . . . couples divorce, when parents remarry, and when women, especially mothers, live without men” (p. 858). Allen (1993) writes, “I hope the narrow question of whether living in a continuously intact family of origin versus living apart from a biological parent at some point in one’s life is soon obsolete” (p. 49).

This demand that family scholars not examine family structure effects is often accompanied by an ideological insistence that scholars embrace family structure diversity. In 1979, Moroney stated, “No one family type is superior to another or should be favored over others” (p. 462). Over the years, other scholars echoed his pronouncement. Thompson and Walker (1995) write approvingly of the argument that scholars “must embrace the diversity of family life rather than treat anything other than the standard package as deviant” (p. 859).

David Demo (1992) joins this group. He calls for researchers to study more closely the “linkages between socioeconomic resources, family processes, and child outcomes” (p. 115). He does not want scholars, however, to examine the linkages between divorce and those very socioeconomic resources and family processes. He writes:

[W]e must accept the challenge of viewing divorce from a . . . perspective that considers divorce, single-parent families, and step-families as ‘normative lifestyle choices that are firmly established in society, rather than as social problems or pathological behaviors.’ We must place children and their families at the heart of our inquiry rather than letting ourselves become obsessed with comparing children of divorce with those in two-parent families, or with identifying effects of divorce (1993, p. 45).

To be sure, scholars should not denounce any family structure as “deviant,” just as they should not become “obsessed” with family structure, but they can follow these admonitions while still studying the effects of divorce. Furthermore, it is unclear why identifying the effects of divorce is in opposition to placing “children and their families at the heart of our inquiry.” We can only conclude that Demo is uncomfortable with discussing negative consequences of divorce.


Conclusion

Over the past few decades, most family scholars and researchers have come to agree that family structure influences child well-being. A nontrivial portion of scholars, however, attempt to downplay the apparent negative effects of divorce and unwed childbearing, usually by using rhetorical devices or interpretive strategies not usually applied to social science evidence. An apparent major reason for downplaying family structure effects is to avoid stigmatizing children or afflicting parents with guilt, and these are admirable goals. But pursuit of these goals through denial is shortsighted and in the long run is likely to hurt those it is intended to help. Even short term benefits from this strategy are problematic. For instance, telling a single mother that her family form is just as good as any other puts the blame for any problems she faces and for any failures she experiences directly on her—hardly the best way to avoid stigma and guilt.

A mantra often repeated by family diversity advocates is that “all kinds of families deserve support.” We would change that to “people in all kinds of families deserve support,” and we fail to see how denying that people in some kinds of families face greater difficulties than others is conducive to effective support of those people with the greater needs. If, as research indicates, divorce and unwed childbearing tend to disadvantage children, it does parents and their children a disservice to pretend that family structure is irrelevant or outside the bounds of appropriate research.

Scholars should continue to study family structure and the mechanisms through which it may affect child well-being so that personal and policy decisions can be based on sound knowledge. Social science findings are inherently tentative, but that should not deter family scholars and researchers from an imperfect pursuit of the truth.

 

Notes

*Prior to 2001, the Journal of Marriage and Family was known as the Journal of Marriage and the Family. For ease, the new journal title is used throughout this report and in the online bibliography at www.familyscholarslibrary.org.

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About this Report

This report was commissioned by the National Fatherhood Initiative, in partnership with the Institute for American Values, and written by Professor Norval Glenn of the University of Texas at Austin and Thomas Sylvester of the Institute for American Values. The sponsors are grateful to their academic advisors for their review and suggestions, and to their financial contributors for their generous support.

This project was supported by Grant No. 2001-DD-BX-0079 awarded by the Bureau of Justice Assistance, U.S. Department of Justice. The Bureau of Justice Assistance is a component of the Office of Justice Programs, which also includes the Bureau of Justice Statistics, National Institute of Justice, Office of Juvenile Justice and Delinquency Prevention, and the Office for Victims of Crimes. Points of view or opinions in this document are those of the authors and do not represent the views of the Department of Justice.

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